Capsule Wardrobe for a Hysterectomy

I ordered some cozy lounge wear from Target to recuperate in. I didn’t want to feel like I’m in pjs all day so I picked items that I wouldn’t mind people seeing me in. I chose the Stars Above line because I already have a couple pjs from them and they are so soft. As I picked things I ended up picking all pink and grey items, with one black one. They made a nice capsule wardrobe. I won’t need to think about what to wear. I also added in a turban headband because I really need a haircut but wanted to wait till I recover a little. It’s long so I can braid it or put it up and I won’t have little hairs bothering me. Below you’ll see what I got, in case you’re planning your recovery wardrobe too.

Packing

I’m pretty much packed up and ready to go for Tuesday. I put all my stuff in my giant Baggallini that I take on planes. It has tons of pockets so I can find stuff easy. So here’s what I’m bringing to the hospital with me.

  • Book – My sister gave me a series she really liked so I’m excited to start it.
  • Phone – I’ll be using this a lot but I also added some new games and downloaded some Netflix shows I want to watch.
  • Charger
  • Earphones
  • Eye mask
  • Swedish Fish – My sisters gave me a bunch of stuff to help and pamper me and they know I love Swedish Fish. I may not get to them in the hospital but they will get eaten soon.
  • Wisp toothbrush – I read that this was a great thing to have after surgery but before you can really get up. Apparently your mouth can feel really gross after you wake up.
  • Brush
  • Pony tail holder
  • Kleenex
  • Lotion
  • Pads
  • Toothbrush and paste
  • Face wash
  • Moisturizer
  • Face mist – Part of my pamper kit my sisters gave me had a bunch of little luxury travel minis so I put the basics in a cute little bag they gave me. I think I’ll keep it on the bedside table so I can get to these things to keep my skin hydrated.
  • Chap stick
  • Pen
  • Blanket – My mom’s friends made me a quilt with lots of fun fabrics to look at while I’m resting. They’ve both had hysterectomies so they understand what I’ll need.
  • Ab binder – I don’t know that I’ll need this in the hospital but I thought I’d bring it just in case.
  • Extra mask – because that’s the most important accessory right now.

The day of I’ll need to add my license and health insurance card too. I plan on wearing one outfit to the hospital and coming home in it too, except I’ll bring a change of undies and some slipper socks too.

Getting Ready

My surgery is next week. I made sure I got a flu shot last week and Friday I went and got my EKG and chest x-ray done. So now I just need to get my Covid test this weekend. I’ve also talked with the hospital a couple times now. Once was to go over everything I needed to know. Like, I need to fast starting at midnight, use the hibiclens soap the night before and the morning of. I need to be at the hospital be 5:30 am so that’s going to be a really early shower. Good thing I don’t need to look beautiful for surgery. She also asked about medications and other health history things. Then I got a call today to pre-register. I thought I took care of this online but I guess they just wanted to make sure everything was right. So I think all the formalities are pretty much done. Now I just need to pack and get some stuff done around the house. So far I’m pretty calm about it all. I hope I can stay this way. I know I’ll be nervous day of, I just hope not too nervous.

Food Prep

I’m trying to get ahead on all the meal planning for after my surgery. I had thought about making extra from our meals as we get closer to my hysterectomy and then freezing them. But we don’t have enough freezer space for that so I started looking around at mail order meal prep services. I decided to go with Home Chef since they have options from ready to go in the oven to some fancier options. I thought the oven ready meals would be good, especially right after, so my husband and daughter could just pop them in the oven. The only problem is my husband is gluten and soy free. So many of the options in the oven ready category weren’t available. Oh well, I chose the options I could that didn’t take too long to cook. This will take a big worry off since I do a lot of meal planning, and cooking. I also don’t want us getting take out a lot after surgery, so hopefully this will be great for our family for a little while. If you want to try Home Chef you can use my referral code elizabetho587 I’m looking forward to not doing all the prep work and letting Jeran and Colette do the cooking for a bit.

Guess I’ll Try That Again

Today I decided to go get my EKG and chest x-ray done. I had been told I had plenty of time to do it so take care of it whenever. So I went today and was told I was too early, 2 weeks before is what they prefer. Ok, I turned around and headed home. Hopefully when I go back in a few weeks it will be just as empty as it was today, it was definitely a good day to get stuff done at the hospital.

Since I can’t tell you how my lab work went I’ll let you know some of the stuff I’m buying to be prepared. First up is some stuff from Amazon. None of this is glamorous but necessary.

  1. Abdominal Binder. It has darts to keep it in place and is smaller, since I’m short.
  2. Compression panties. I got the high waisted ones but I’ll probably get the bikini ones with the silicone pad after I’ve healed some.
  3. Stretchy sports bras because I don’t think I’m going to want a regular bra while I’m resting at home.
  4. Seatbelt pillow. I wanted a different one because of the fabric but decided I’d get this one since I can put a cold pack in it and use it at home or in the car. I’ve read that having a pillow for the car is important.
  5. Cold packs, I think I’ll be using them a lot.
  6. Granny panties. Hopefully I won’t need giant underwear for long but I want to be comfortable while I do.

That’s it! I’m looking at getting some cozy lounge wear and thinking ahead about meals. I’ll let you know more about that later.

I’m Going to Have a Hysterectomy

Today I went and got my blood work done. That made it seem like it’s really going to happen. It went really well, usually my veins just disappear, but she only had to try once and I’m not too bruised. My next step is to get an EKG and chest x-ray, since I’m over 40. I’ve been worrying and thinking and going to the doctor but for some reason this felt like the first real step. So it also felt right to start writing it down. I’ll pop on here from time to time and let you know what else is going on, what I’m buying, how I’m prepping, what’s going on with me. But for now, I have a giant fibroid, and I’m going to have a hysterectomy.

Oh, Lord You’re Beautiful, and I am Really Bruised.

We were in a car accident Thursday. A young guy in a giant truck ran a red light and took out the engine of my husbands SUV. It was sudden, noisy, smelled horrible, but we were all safe. Colette and I sat on the grassy corner near the accident and watched… and waited. I’ve never been in an accident before, but everything seemed to go as smoothly as can be expected. As we sat I kept thinking of all the little things that were helpful. I had a tiny notebook to take down people’s names and numbers for witnesses. We had a bunch of Target bags in the back of the car that came in handy for clearing everything out before the car was towed. The fact that we all have cell phones and can call for help. It was still light out, everything would have been much harder in the dark. The more important things were that people stopped to help, the police and ambulance were fast, my parents could come and pick us up. We were safe, and together.

Later that night when it was quiet, we realized how sore we really were. Jeran couldn’t get the buzzing in his ear to stop and I couldn’t stop hearing “Oh, Lord You’re Beautiful” playing over and over in my head. I woke up singing it again, with it playing in my head we were off to the the ER to check us out. The ER staff were great, and going early in the morning was a good idea, they weren’t busy and I ended up staying there longer than expected. We all got x-rays that came back good, but soon I had a bunch of staff worried about my bruising, the seat belt had definitely left it’s mark. I needed a CT scan. This was a shock, I was fine, just some pain where the belt was. I wasn’t on the side that got hit, the rest of my family was. But it’s better safe than sorry and this was just another new experience for me. I waited a long time, they might have forgotten about me. But I sat and listened to life going on around me. I heard illness, pain, worry, but also the conversations of the staff talking about normal every day things and the lullaby that meant a baby was born. Through it all I couldn’t stop singing.

Oh Lord, you’re beautiful,
Your face is all I see,
For when your eyes are on this child,
Your grace abounds to me.

My scan came back good and I learned a little more about myself. It’s nice to know everything’s working ok. I still have the song running through my head, who knows how long that will last. It’s just there, but sometimes when I stop and think on it, I’m amazed that God would look at me. Through the messy and amazing parts of my life God covers me in grace, and I don’t want to stop singing his praises.

Surprised by Kusadasi

Sailing away from Turkey

Sailing away from Turkey

Recap of our Mediterranean cruise Day 6

I have to say I didn’t know what to expect when we went to Turkey. Most people I know who have done the Mediterranean never went to Turkey. They lovingly talk about Greece or Italy but that’s it. My husband went to Turkey as a kid. All he seems to remember is eating kabob from a street vendor and his grandma getting stuck in the elevator at their hotel. Even though I didn’t know what to expect, the excursion we planned was one of the ones I was looking forward to the most.

 

St. John's

St. John’s

We were to visit St. John’s Basilica and meet an eccentric professor and help him solve a mystery. We borded our bus and were on our way. It took a little while but it was a nice drive and familiar. The area looked a lot like California. The dry hills, similar plants. Now when I read the New Testament I’ll know what some of the locations looked like, the foothills. We got to St. John’s and were greeted by storks. They were nesting around the area and flying everywhere. Our guide told us that we were lucky because they have a saying that if you see a stork in it’s nest you will not travel that year, but if you see it flying, you will travel a lot. we saw a bunch of storks flying so I guess we’ll be on the go. We had a brief tour of the ruins and a chance to wander on our own, but soon the mystery began. We were introduced to the archaeologists (actors) working the site and told that they had found some clues but couldn’t figure them out, and needed help from all the kids to solve them. We were put into teams and sent off on a scavenger hunt. Everyone was running around looking for the next clues and every once in awhile you’d come up on another tour. They were definitely missing out on the fun with just a plain tour.

 

About to solve the mystery

About to solve the mystery

We found the last clue and brought it back to the professor. He assembled everything the groups had found and it made a mosaic with an ichthus (fish) inside. Later we would see the ichthus carved into the stones in Ephesus, showing that Christians were there. It was a lot of fun. The Disney excursions with kids activities are really great. The children love them and you get to interact with the location in a more meaningful way. Next we were headed to Ephesus. No special kids stuff here but it didn’t need it. I don’t really know how to describe it.

 

The library of Ephesus

The library of Ephesus

It was amazing that they could have built such grandeur long ago, still beautiful in it’s ruined state. I could really imagine how it had been with people everywhere living and working there. It’s really wonderful to see something you’ve only read about in the Bible. Soon we left and went to Ephesus Park. It’s a recreation of what the towns would have been like long ago. They have a silly production with Cleopatra, dancing girls and a brief gladiator fight. I wish we hadn’t watched it because we didn’t have a lot of time there. We did get to eat some kabob. I wanted to try the Turkish coffee shop but it was so hot, I couldn’t do it. I really think Disney should add to their excursions a coffee experience. They should have a guide well versed in coffee take you to the best places in Venice, the Greek Isles and Kusadasi to try the local specialties and learn more. People are so coffee crazy I think it would be fun. After lunch we ran to the shop to try and find some souvenirs but we did’t have a lot of time. We did by a pottery cat. There were so many cats in Ephesus that it was a perfect reminder of this part of our trip. We took so long shopping the guide had to come get us because it was time to leave. I’m glad we chose excursions that showed the history of each location but we didn’t have much chance to do any shopping. Every excursion was so long. A lot of the European families on board, including our dinner companions, didn’t take these long trips. Many of the cruisers had been to these places, or they just came for the beach and the sun. We learned that Kusadasi is a very popular resort town and people come from all over to vacation there. But, how could you pass up these experiences, although relaxing would be fun.

 

Colette trying to make a knot

Colette trying to make a knot

On the way back to the ship our guide took us to see rugs being made. This wasn’t part of the tour but most of the group went. It was interesting and we got to experience Turkish hospitality. They gave us cheese pies and we tried raki, looked at tons of beautiful rugs and almost bought one. The ones I really liked were way too big for our house and because of that, way out of our price range. The sales men are good though, they kept saying its a great investment for our daughter, she can have it forever and take it into her marriage one day. I’m for a nice hope chest but we’ll start out smaller, I’m teaching her how to embroider tea towels right now.

walk

We finally got back to the ship and got ready for Prince & Princess night. Colette wore her Elsa dress and we went see “Twice Charmed” it was a cute Cinderella show and then bed. It had been a long day, but I had been pleasantly surprised by Turkey. I would really enjoy going back again, and maybe relaxing a little more this time.

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A Day in Venice

Lunch at Al Nono

Lunch at Al Nono

Our Mediterranean Cruise recap part 2

We had a whole day in Venice to explore. We got up and headed to the hotels complimentary breakfast. Colette enjoyed every breakfast on our trip. The hotels we stayed at in Venice and later Switzerland had wonderful breakfast options.

Breakfast at Hotel Rialto

Breakfast at Hotel Rialto

Colette enjoyed trying a lot different things, the hot chocolate they would bring her, and eating bacon, and I found I really like Italian coffee for breakfast. They bring nice coffee and then a pitcher of warm milk. So yummy. Our cruise even had warm milk in the buffet every morning and I don’t remember this on our first Disney cruise to Mexico. We sat outside and watched people exit the vaporettos and head off to work, and enjoyed the quiet of the Rialto Bridge before all the tourists showed up.

Walking to St. Marks

Walking to St. Marks

As soon as we finished breakfast we headed to St. Mark’s square. I had read Rick Steve’s guide book on Venice and he said to get to St. Mark’s early. So, that was our plan. He was right, as we walked the alley ways to the square we got to see all the shops opening and it was peaceful, not full of people like you hear so much. When we got to St. Mark’s there was hardly anyone there. We looked around and took pictures, it was beautiful. Soon we headed toward the basilica.

St. Mark's Square before the crowds

St. Mark’s Square before the crowds

There was a line but it wasn’t bad, since the church hadn’t even opened yet. We must have looked like we knew what we were doing because a couple asked us if we spoke English and if they were in the right line. We were, and the line soon started to move. Since it’s free to tour the basilica most people seem to just do the main church but everyone moves together like sardines. It was pretty cramped. We did the treasurery tour. It’s just 2 rooms. 1 room has candlesticks, vases, incense boxes and other beautifully made items. The other room has relics, a lot. My daughter thought this was pretty weird, but still interesting. This little tour was not really necessary, and there is a fee. I would say skip it if I did it again, but it is a nice way to support the church. Next we did the tour of the altar. This part most people seemed to skip. There is a fee, but it’s nice to get a closer look, and it’s a great chance to get out of the crowd. Then back into the crowd and we headed to the museum. The museum is on the 2nd floor and you need to take some pretty steep steps. It has a lot of beautiful tapestries, mosaics and the bronze horses. The balcony has some great picture spots. After a stop at the gift shop we were off to explore the city. The basilica was the only thing we had planned that day. I didn’t want to wear us out and bore Colette with museum tours. I was glad that was all we had planned because wandering Venice is fun on its own.

We started to head towards a restaurant that I saw in the Rick Steve’s guide book, Al Nono. We were the only ones there at first, so they sat us on the patio (it’s a beautiful patio and very Italian) so you could see us as you walked by. While we were there the patio filled up nicely with a lot of other vacationing small families. The staff doesn’t speak as much English as other places we’d been to already. I was a little worried since Jeran’s gluten free but I printed out these dining cards in Italian and they really helped. They had gluten free pasta so Jeran had spaghetti and Colette and I shared a Marguerite pizza. This was also the first place Colette had Coke. We don’t usually let her have soda, but since it was vacation and Coke is usually safe when you’re out of the country, we let her try it. She loves Coke now! She tried it everywhere we went on this trip and would tell us if it tasted different. Italy, Greece, Turkey, Switzerland, they all taste a little different. Greece ended up being her favorite with ice and a lemon. I personally liked Turkish Coke better, it was sweeter.

Gondola ride before dinner

Gondola ride before dinner

After lunch we wandered around looking at masks and glass. Colette decided she really needed a mask, we eventually found one but as we looked Colette had a desperate need for the bathroom. Finding a toilet was hard so we ended up going back to out hotel. We needed a break anyway. My feet were really tired from all the cobble streets and bridges. We rested for awhile and Colette watched Italian game shows while we tried to decide where to go for dinner. We had read another blog that told of a good gluten free pizza spot. We headed for it but could never find it. We did find a cute kitchen store. The clerk directed us to an area of town, where most tourists don’t go, to find some nice restaurants. As we were headed there another search for the toilet commenced. We finally found the public toilets and the line was so long we just went back to the McDonald’s we saw and bought a drink so we could use the toilet. The regular drink was 2 euros. We didn’t get any food but a small hamburger would have been $8.

dinner 3

There’s a lot of graffiti everywhere

Dinner switch

Dinner switch

dinner 2

We wandered towards the restaurants we had been told about. We found Restaurant Diana. It’s right on a small canal. Most of the seating is canal side but they did have a small inside space. As we looked over the menu they gave us the house spritz it was ok but the food was really good. Jeran had sea bass, I ordered gnocchi knowing Colette would probably switch with me and Colette had pasta with clams. My gnocchi were delicious and I kept trying to get Colette to try it, she didn’t look totally happy with the clams. Once she did, we switched. The clams were so good. I was glad we swapped. When we were finished they brought us limoncello, Jeran was so excited.

Yum gelato

Yum gelato

Then we headed back to our room. On the way we stopped for gelato, we’d already had some earlier in the day but we didn’t want to leave Italy without one more taste. We got Colette’s favorite stracciatella and headed up to the hotels roof to see Venice glow at night. It was a wonderful day of exploring and I’d love to do it all again.

The rooftop patio at our hotel

The rooftop patio at our hotel

Fernweh

fernweh

 

I saw the above picture on Pinterest the other day. I was just looking around for last minute travel tips and saw this.  More than wanderlust and the opposite of home sickness. A craving to travel. Sometimes I get a little claustrophobic in town and feel the need to go, do. We live an hour from the mountains and just a few hours from the beach. Getting away for awhile is easy and calming. I’m curious to see how our trip to Europe will change that though. Will I have a longing to go farther from home, to see things I’ve only read about in books. To experience life in a different way. It’s an adventure and I can’t wait to share it with my little family, and then you. I’ll have a lot to tell you about when I get home.